Good luck! That said, the fact that the two of you were loyal to one another until you broke up with him shows some maturity. We live in an age where we are not content with settling. Sigh. I still told him. My question is: How can we move from here? I can say that we are struggling right now. Posting selfies all over facebook it looks like something else is going on as if they are dating. I was very hurt and confused but after long talks we decided to stay together and move with his parents to a new state, thousands of miles away from my family. Hello. When hes with me I try to see that he wants to be with me but at the same time I just want to go to bed and be left alone. Then she passed out for 4 hours and later went to get mothers house later that afternoon. Its becoming difficult and exhausting, and I feel stuck. Is this a faze Im going through triggered by the anxiety? We were best friends. Even I apologized to him a lot of time. We had the most incredibly open and loving relationship either of has ever had until the stress took over. .. How does one get through this. That thin line will send us downhill again and again. She puts it insecure. How can I make him confident enough in me to try and forgive? Not about us, the breakup, the relationship, etc. Why wouldnt he let me see them, is it something extremely deep they text each other? We have been talking and trying to work on things but his biggest issues is that I dont want to be vulnerable in terms of getting sexually involved with him until I see and feel a change in him. She also hasnt asked for a divorce and I dont want one either. I dont have specific advice for your friend, but maybe if you start therapy, it will give her reassurance that things can be better. So my question is thisI understand that you say it takes time to heal from the hurts of the past and the pain I caused him. Is it even saveable? I knew there was a problem and she was evading me about it. I have been dating this guy for a little over 3 and half years and we got off to a rocky start a few months into our relationship when my ex decided all of a sudden after not speaking to me for 6 months just had to be back in my life and showed up at my house trying to talkI made a point to be sure to tell the current bf because I didnt want to lie to him, well because I was very open with him about my past relationships he was not to thrilled and since has had some major trust issues. Until three months into the relationship when he decided to break up with me because he wouldnt allow anything to distract him from his studies. The first time i got to see him for a week. Good Morning. So now I must go on the journey to get him back. He told me he loved me, but not how little or that he was making himself ill trying to feel as he did at the start. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too.". Shes been my everything and I know Ive been her everything. So insecure that she did not believe enough in HERSELF as a person to have true love in her life. I left him and he kept contacting me but I wanted nothing to do with someone who only looked at me as a way to get sex and be so insensitive to disrespect me and cheat on me. we have talked about relationships, in particular his. How can I get him to open up? I dont know what to do in these situations, because I usually bug her about why she is irritated usually to the point where she says she doesnt feel like dealing with this relationship anymore, How do I fix this and what can I do to get this relationship back to the spark that we used to have in the beginning ox the relationship. Ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 10 months now but we have some issues. these are all things i had told him i would not ever be ok with again, i took too much before and i told myself i would never tolerate this again. I feel the same way. I knew I had lost him. Of course we got back together but he left me another 2 times after. this is called true love . But I do have a question: How do you know for certain that you wouldnt relapse into those same behaviors if he gave you a full and complete chance? I apologize for the lengthy post. I trusted him. I now know this takes time and patience. He has never had a steady job, and im lucky if I get a couple hundred bucks off him a month. We have two children with our third on the way. But I feel I dont have the strength to. I would think that he would see how much I still love him and forgive him despite his wrongs through my actions but I dont even know at this point. It seems hes missing an important part of being in the relationship with you. I wish he had the ability in him to see that the girl that he says is his best friend is actually not who she appears to be. Then I didnt tell you the good part the co worker,my husband and myself all work at the same place. He loves me and wont say leave or hes done. I didnt know that he was getting hurt by this and that Im not meeting his needs when it comes to loving him. Told him. The more respectworthy observations you make, the stronger your trust will be in your spouse. My husband and I have been together for 12yrs married for 5 of those. She has said she now feels supported by me, which is different than before, but still no passion or intimacy. She is taking Prozac for anxiety and she has ADD. That is, your partner is so anxious to wish away all the bad in the relationshipwhich is understandablethat he/she may make you feel like he/she is more concerned with what he/she is getting out of it than what you are being offered. I have tried already. Soon after that, she broke down, genuinely apologized and begged for forgiveness. I dont know. He just thinks we should go back to where we were being a couple and having sex but I cant do that just yet. Boy, God just does His thing, doesnt He? The friendship thing did not work after he got married. The feelings were still there for both of us. How will I know and how can I tell if I will love him again? I would go to the ends of the earth to make Brad see what hes doing to him self is wrong. She honestly knows I didnt want to leave her but in my head it was one or the other, although now I realize I couldve had a long distance relationship and made it work, I chose to venture out and break both of our hearts. i sent an apology one week ago but he has not replied. Great, Jessica! If anything, I am more weepy and depressed than ever before. Everything was more than great, both of us were emotionally comfortable and deeply involved in our school responsibilities, all while still devoting enough time to each other to make a great relationship. we have had our issues, and many of them throughout the years, but he always said US AGAINST THE WORLD! 1. He said he would. its been three months doing this, but I cant take it anymore. When he changed and became loyal, then you were not in love with him. My boyfriend and I were together for 4 and a half years when I was anonymously sent a link to an ad he posted in the personals section looking for casual sex. Even if there was not another man in the picture I still believe Money or lack there of is not a reason to stay with a man who doesnt love and respect you like he should. You can't just go back to life before you knew them. Were both 27 years old. But you would like to change him. I also understand why he wants to spend time with someone else because being around me has been difficult and exhausting for a very long time. It is harder to curse someone after you have asked God to bless them. Hi Broken 79 You've got thoughts of them circling in your mind, 24/7. 2 years ago I went to visit him to his country and the spark was so strong, our connection was so incredibly strong.. I want him home more. I was married for ten years before learning that my spouse had been having an affair for 2 of those years. She actually mentioned that she thinks the reason she let her coworker into her life is because he is confident. Man. He has recently started a job but he has never kept one long term and spends his days getting drunk and smoking pot, which I dont do personally but I have tried it and dont see anything wrong with it if your life is in order. Only therapy can fix that. A child of the civil rights movement, a trial lawyer and the youngest individual ever to be elected to the South Carolina Legislature as well as the youngest African American elected official anywhere in the nation, Bakari Sellers has known great personal loss and earned historic public victories. Then added a further 3 calls in for good measure with the last call of the day happening immediately our children & their families headed on home. I got angry because to me it felt like he was letting her win and he finally said I dont need you to agree with me, I just need you to support me. This was totally out of the blue. 47-63). We both love each other very much but she has told me that she has been holding back her feelings to spare me and now she feels that she has neglected to take care if her own feelings. Two years ago he left got counseling and blocked everything so he could focus n himself. He said they click and have so much in common. w/o seeing the red flags in him or perhaps you wanted to overlook them means that you also may need other help. He told me months ago that we were headed towards this and I said Id stop the bad behaviors, but I didnt. I wrote on here in November of this year. Sometimes I feel as though he feels the same but we dont want to hurt each other and separate. I feel a lot of my bad habits of being stubborn or misunderstanding have gone and I have beem rewarded with my efforts through this tough time by a husband who tells me I look prettier every passing day. On the other hand, your continued acceptance of him is actually coming across to him as a green light to continue his behavior no matter what he does. Until The past month, it has been torturous for both of us. No arguments, just love and support. Thank you. He became heartless in my eyes and didnt think about my feelings or anything I feel disrespected and stupid. It is easy enough to see how love and hate can coexist in cases of unreciprocated love. One of the reasons for our problems was his difficulty in finding a job in our home country. I believe thats because somewhere deep down she knows the guy isnt a good character but shes too busy filling the voids I left her with to want to leave him. Sometimes the person we hate is ourselves because we can't get rid of emotions for another person even if they are dragging us down. Second, her therapist who is away for the summer should either have put in place a way to contact her such as email, phone, or Skype, or have a substitute. He has told me multiple times that the wall he put up was a reaction to the pain I caused him. Hi Shelly No single flower. My hunch is that it would not be good at all. He is very judgmental and critical on top of it I feel like he only knew how to put me down. We stayed together for the baby but I lost him when I was 5 months. Do you have any suggestions? Hi Beth, You are attracted to and feeling repulsed by the person you just started seeing. Its almost like Im forcing myself to for him.. And it sucks cause I know he deserves better, But I dont want to loose my family cause my kids love us together and I know how a divorce can ruin everything I just dont know what to do. How do I trust him again? He is very clear that he cannot be with me anymore, he cant find his feelings towards me ( however, when asked if there was a way to find them would he want to find them he said he would but he did not believe it was possible anymore). My wife and I have been together for nearly 6 years, 3 of which are married. What you did for 12 years abuse your wife verbally and emotionally it is good that you are now honest about it but the most important thing you can do for yourself, her, and your children is get therapy to make the changes you need. He gets frustrated that I dont trust him but hes willing to do anything to get me to understand. Get the help you need from a therapist near youa FREE service from Psychology Today. The moment you pledge you highest love, you greet your greatest fear. Then, you can share with him just exactly how you are working on yourself to be different. Yes, it makes sense but there is no way I could help you w/o actually seeing you and talking this thing through. I guess my question of there is a question is how bad does it have to be until its okay to decide to leave. Hes even thinking about ending everything. Dr Deb, You may have felt too low a sense of self-esteem to select properly the first time so you would benefit from work on your self esteem. My brain tells me to stop trying and let him go, but my heart, even though he has broken it three times now, tells me to not give up on him and to keep loving him. You should go to AlAnon to learn more, too. You both have to agree to counseling to learn communication or you might as well forget it. I think the whole problem is that I am not patient enough and am constantly checking in with her too see if progress is being made. People (including him) will see your effort and you will reap the love and success from your efforts in other areas of your life. I have gone through difficult situations of betrayal with him and I lost trust in him then slowly we started in what you described as falling back in love and regaining that trust. His grandma that he was very close to pass away this past April. They recently split due to partner one finding partner two looking for hookers and indulging in drugs so partner one calls for space.. prove to her how much u need her. She is a wonderful woman. Hi Kim, He started coming into my room (I had moved into my daughters room early on) to hug me goodnight. !And you are also right about Not Being able to feel Love OR Pain!! Well after 5 years of my abuse towards my ex girlfriend she finally said she had to leave so she could grow into the woman she wanted to be. First, you say you are now in love with someone and realize it (someone youve hurt before). So I wish you a healthier and happier new year than in the past, Kathleen. At the time I wanted to get married, he didnt. Hello Deb. He says hes sorry but the next day all the lies and fucking up will happen again. He has basically told the world, our friends and family including my children that he has no respect for me and I dont even matter as a person and it hurts. I have been in a fully committed relationship for 2 years. I think I know whats going on. i would send him msgs but he would just ignore replying me or he replys in ashort way with out trying to find out how i was like he used to do. Then he told me , he really didnt and that he didnt feel any urges to talk or anything. When we first met and also 3 years into the relationship she loved me then but then saw changes in me. After talking with a very close friend Id come to see that he was toxic, made things move too fast, and when something ticked him off, it actually triggered something oddly hostile in him. He makes me feel like I am worthy and treasured. I realize I have questioned everything he does and turned around everything he said. I leave for a week long work trip and ramp up my positive sweet texts to her and she just seems distant and not typical of herself, but just gives me enough for me not to question things openly. Inge van der Post Recommends: 1. So the way to avoid that is to always keep a barrier of some kind between you. Do not give up. I messed up the best thing in my life. Then about a year ago we met up again and started to become intimate but I stopped it because I felt terrible. He will disclose his side to make anyone but himself look bad. I love. its been a year now and things have improved but i dont feel we have restored the connection again. Yesterday, we had a falling out but we resolved things at which time she asked what time was the wedding. We have a five year old daughter and I dont want to be with anyone else and I dont want to move me and my daughter out of our home, but Im not sure how much of this I can take. I am completely broken. to get my husband back into my life.He s a good guy and good husband too. It was to a point where I began to question everything he did and started looking through his phone every so often (which I know I should not have done). In that moment without realizing it I hurt my husband in a way it dont know if I can ever repair. Im not going to apologize for what I type. I realise that this is not going to be helpful for him in overcoming his issues with alcohol. Hi C This is my first move away from home and I suppose I was just rather immature and excited about the whole process of having new life experiences and immersing myself in culture that I didnt think about the people and things I would leave behind. I broke up with my boyfriend for 3 years. help. I cannot do an abrupt withdrawal of everything, shutters down and shop closed. 6. I dont know what to do. It hurts like hell, I doubt I will love like that again. Im so lost. You will have to work hard on yourself to be a better person. She doesnt want to be mad at her parents, or hear the counselor say that they were bad parents. If both people in a relationship can open thier minds to understand that there is nothing but Love in our classroom we are all living in, then healing happens and the heart is the winner for both. I dont want to provide a bad example to our only child by staying in the marriage. Can you advise what should I do now? And she drove back home. I realize now I pushed him to do some things he did not want to do and did not respect or consider him like I should have. Simply walking off into the sunrise & never turning back. It is akin to noticing how your child is improving in math or picking up a language. Some Churches make this mandatory. You may have had children together. Next, it is not your job to make him happy. and she is slowly pushing away. Hi Deb, I met my girlfriend during freshman year in college. This is not a real relationship; this is someone taking advantage of you. Me and my husband (together 10 years, married 18m) have 2 children together. I dont know if I believe him or not though. We are also very different so I dont know why we held on to each other this long but I also know that I couldnt go on without him. So much i just wish things were different i cry all the time and he sees it hell ask what wrong i say nothing of course but deep down inside my heart is breaking and it sux! One morning while waiting for the school bus to come and pick up my daughter, she came outside swearing at me that we clearly missed the bus and told me to start acting like an adult. Really looking forward to moving on with just good memories that make me smile, not collapse in a wailing painful mess. He hated the arguements and most of all he felt I had betrayed his trust. A week ago we had a fight that turned really messy resulting in him breaking up with me. God can heal this and change your partners heart. True, you were just kids at the time. Hi Anna, She hasnt asked for a divorce, and Im also trying to move closer to her and my daughter. Get professional help. It turns out that no matter what they discussed .. it was no more than what he discussed with his customers,our daughters or me. Somewhere in your life, anger was acceptable. Next morning I turn my phone off and leave town for the day. I mean I cared but I told myself that if thats what needed to happen for her to feel better than so be it. What I can say definitely is that if you learn mindfulness, it will be more powerful than medication to reduce your stress levels and depression. I had already been through a couple of long and unsuccessful relationships which both failed because ultimately neither of those men treated me with respect and both of them ended up being abusive in the end of each relationshipand even through all of that I never cheated or disrespected them when I was in the relationship with them. Even though we had a lot of happy times after that, we started arguing about a lot of things, the arguments getting pettier as the relationship started to end. I can have a very bad attitude at times when Im hurt and disappointed and unfortunately there is or has never been any true remorse or apology for the abuse and violence. A person experiencing dementia might display love and hate to their caregiver within the same few moments. He was, she said she wanted to do something specific to him and I agreed. We have been together now for almost a year and he has treated me like sh** the whole time! Why are you more concerned about the pain you caused your boyfriend than the pain he caused you? Me having to tend to our newborn. Hi, my ex and I dated for 2months, she was madly in love with me but the thing is it was a long distance relationship so she felt lonely, my physical self wasnt with her, I felt bad for her cos im so insanely in love wit heri promised to come see her in 2 weeks time and spend the weekend with her but as time went on the love she had for me started to disappear cause of the absence of my physical self, we always had sex over the phone, sent pictures to each other we talked and chatted every second I never let her miss me cos she would hurt but yesterday she just told me she wasnt insanely in love with me anymore, she said she was tired of all the obstacles we had, especially distance part. Ankita I know it sounds weird that I am sixteen and so young but if you have ever gotten that feeling like hes the one and you just feel so comfortable around him you would understand. I do indeed miss my former spouse and best friend. She says NO I dont want you to go, I dont want to have to deal with your needs, your comfort, and its not about you, its their beautiful day, she says she is done talking and hangs up. She said she felt things just werent important to me. However I understood that she o ices with her man and his parent. Im so heartbroken I dont know if i should let him goi cannot go on feeling this way.I used to be a happy go lucky person. The entire thing has made me crazy and depressed. I felt hed do it all over again. Im afraid that after this process, returning to our normal relationship will be foreign. I see all these things and I cant talk about them. I wasnt nice at all, no name calling, I just let her know I thought she was a fake. She was mad. I asked him to end this friendship in order for me to move forward. Sometimes you need to spend time with the other person. There is the dawning awareness that your spouse is growing. But I cant go through non-stop abuse and humiliation to get there. Recently I told him that I wasnt emotionally or mentally ready to get married at this time-I know it broke his heart and it broke mine too. Yet, shes in controversial love with her baby father. I critique her and put her down until she began Drinking. Im so hurt right now. I wished in my heart I had kept them words to myself, he knew I liked him a lot. The woman Ive been dating for 2 months is afraid of intimacy and has admitted to never being in love. So the gut picked her and I saw him clearly he was the guy I saw on fb. It was so weird, I couldnt figure out what was going on and stayed that way until just months ago. If I left would it be unfair to my daughter? I see a future with her and she means the world to me. Part two: How you feel about the other person. She lives with her baby father basically because of accommodation but she doesnt want me to have any lady. My fianc who I love very much and have been together for almost 10 years and have 2 children. But he can also fall back IN love, too! Your spouse will realize that change goes way beyond no longer being ugly with you. That day I had my son in my arms and I took him home with me. Please help! Hi Adarkwa I had been hoping we would push the relationship a step further by seeing each other more, but she has two kids and a busy job and I travel for work about 10 days a month. Make a special time to just go out w/o talking about who will pick up the kids from soccer. i didnt know what to do because his drinking was out of hand and the kind of trouble he was getting into made me worry about all of us. Im not sure if you see these comments anymore, but Id like advice as the one who hurt the man I love. And i really do love him so much. Try also to work to support yourself and finish school. There are many of us in similar situations and were cheering for you. Can you stick it out that long? This happened two more times until I decided to book my holidays with a girl friend of mine (he was always telling me I should be independent) He seemed glad I made that decision but after that he told me he couldnt take it any longer and that he needed to be alone. She said I played her and ask that. A good partner will listen to you, and do their best to accommodate or help you through it. I just, I dont know if we need to break up, take a break, or work harder. He was mad and disappointed that I went alone. It is necessary for a couple to understand this and this problem should be healed before marriage. He has gone back and forth so many times. Please help. I told him I was tired of the lies. Thank you DrDeb. Matter of fact, i deleted her number from my contact. It seemed or I felt like it went from being ours,us,we to everything was his or my house type of attitude. The way I said it he thinks Im prpud of what I did which is not true seriously. They'll stick up for and defend friends who treat them terribly time and time again. My girlfriend recently left me and I cant seem to get over it. how to love innocently? We live together, and I think he is planning on proposing to me, he drops a lot of hints, and says he wants to spend his life with me. After all, marriage is a relationship built on love and respect that lasts until the end of time. We are in the office Monday through Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Pacific Time; our phone number is 888-563-2112 ext. I wrote the below last year and never received a response. if you have any advice for me that would be great because I really want to be with him and I dont want to lose him, everything with him feels right except for that. Is it a therapist who specializes in trauma? So I we shopped for all that. Can she feel that beautiful sensation when I touch her skin? So when I would get these feelings I would go out and allow myself to get drunk and make out with other dudes. 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